Was I wrong to give him another chance?
Thursday, February 18th, 2010Doris_H asked:
My best friend & I both went to this party (Formal, not a house party or anything like that) and she was sorta on a “boyfriend hunt” lol. While she was in the restroom, I saw this guy and thought maybe he’d be perfect for her (I myself, thought he was very handsome) so when she came back, I showed her they guy. She said he wasn’t her type (She’s a bit shallow), so I decided to go for him. I went up to talk to him, we had a nice conversation and exchanged numbers until this other girl pushed me out of the way and started talking to him. I thought maybe he was already taken so I started walking away until I felt something tugging on my wrist and I turned around and he was there. He explained to me how his ex wouldn’t stop leaving him alone and that he was single. A couple months after, we started dating. It was going VERY well until two months ago when he suddenly acting rude. We were on vacation and he wouldn’t get off his computer (Work) and whenever I would talk to him or ask him if he wanted to take a break and go outside, he would snap at me and tell me how I was being selfish and interfering with his work, this went on for the whole vacation. Then my friend invited us to another formal party and she had to convince him to come, but I could tell he really didn’t want too and was annoyed. Throughout the whole party, he ignored me and when I would try to talk to him he would say “This is a waste of time, your so selfish to make me come here, I have more important things to do”. I started bursting into tears and he just went home and left me there. When he would be working, I would call his work and his assistant would tell me hes busy or hes out. Last month, I went out with this guy I met at the party (We went out for lunch as FRIENDS) and when I got home, my boyfriend was watching a movie, so I sat beside him and he seemed in a good mood. So I asked him what was wrong in the past month and he broke up with me, he said I was selfish, “not spending enough time with him” and annoying and left and said every time I called his office, he was trying to avoid me. Just yesterday, he came back asking for a second chance. I really love him although he treats me like crap and I feel like im worthless when hes not around so I did give him another chance.
Did I make the wrong decision and end it completley?